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Author: Amber Willingham

Hi - I am Amber aka A.L., and I am an author. I empty nest with my husband of almost 30 years and my four rescues. I have two "adult" children and have published one book with 3 more in the que. I am new to the publishing world and have learned that to grow my readers I have to grow my audience, so, here I am, jumping in with both feet! Wish me luck!

A 50 SOMETHING’S GUIDE TO NAVIGATING THE SOCIAL WORLD

MY JOURNEY THROUGH SOCIAL MEDIA

So, I am 55 years old – yes, I was born in the 60s – yet I feel like I am thirty something, old enough to have my opinion respected and young enough to be hip. The fact that I just used the word “hip” to describe myself is probably a tale-tale sign that I am not. My kids call me a “boomer”, but I don’t quite fit into that category either. My mom is a boomer – not me! As I said, I am hip.

One of the challenges of being fifty something and living in this world of technology is that I live in this world of technology. When I went to high school, we learned the keyboard on an IBM Selectric. We typed, because, well, typing pools (boomer speak) and nothing came from it except a blank piece of paper now had words on it that you had created. You could even correct any mistakes by pressing a key on the machine and it would white out your mistake.

Computers were just being introduced into the mainstream and we had one class in all four years of high school dedicated to learning MS dos. The school owned twenty computers each the size of a small file cabinet and were used by all eight hundred students in the school. Booting up took the first 15 minutes of class. I still know absolutely nothing about MS dos.

Now I am on my third act of life, my first was attorney, my second was a mom, and I saved the best act for last (drum roll please) WRITING! I naively thought that “writing” meant I would just write. I would use my skills learned on that IBM Selectric, the words would show up on a screen rather than paper (long live the trees) and that would be that. Stories would be told, awards would be won, accolades and recognition would fall at my feet. (insert slapped forehead here)

Little did I know that once the typing was done, I would then have to promote myself, not my stories, but little old me on social media. Blog, page, post, content creation etc etc all the things that when I say them make me sound far from hip as I am sure I am using them improperly – like a boomer would. I don’t know the difference between a blog, a post or content – I don’t know what it is to “trend” these days. I honestly don’t know what will happen to these words I am typing now (at a sixty word per minute clip thank you IBM) once I hit “post”.

This is the journey I have decided to take. It’s not a journey of writing stories, that was the fun part. It’s the journey of learning this new world and new language of technology and promotion. I have read the blogs and the posts (at least that’s what I think they were) on how to get my stories in front of the masses. The masses are now on their computers so that is where I will meet them. I look forward to the journey and I hope you enjoy as I blog (or is it post?) the experience.

Bliss Creek featured on The Chronically Healthy Life hosted by Andy Nam

Thank you so much Andy Nam for having me on your show the Chronically Healthy Life! I always learn something when I tune into your show and am humbled by the experience to actually be a PART of your show! Thanks for helping me promote Bliss Creek, A Novel and my life’s journey! Catch the episode here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1oh2c5734ZY7dgHDEhWp4m0dymFr-L4SD/view?usp=drive_link https://www.facebook.com/events/503423108811196/?

Bliss Creek, A Novel and Author A.L. Willingham highlighted on Superbrand Publishing interview with Juliet Clark

Thank you Juliet Clark and Superbrand Publishing for allowing me the opportunity to talk about my book and my journey with you! Check out the Youtube episode where we discuss life, writing and the journey, oh and my first novel Bliss Creek! Juliet it is always a pleasure to chat with you and I look forward to the next time! You can catch this interview here: https://superbrandpublishing.com/the-secret-life-of-bliss-creek-uncovering-the-facade and you can buy Bliss Creek here: https://a.co/d/isSbKWO

A Note From the Author

Hi! Thanks for tuning in! I wanted to share some updates on my journey as an author and Bliss Creek, my first novel.  This book has been a long time in the making – in that I finished it and threw it in a corner to collect dust for a decade!  (gasp)  When my youngest left for college I decided it was time to pick it up and dust it off and see what might become of it.  The publishing process has been a huge learning experience and has taken about nine months, which is appropriate because it felt like giving birth.  I went the independent route as I did not find an agent and so here we are, nine months later with our first book baby!  I am still learning and exploring ways to get my book into reader’s hands.  I have joined the Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators (SCBWI) and when doing so was able to enter my book into a contest for “late bloomers”.   I hope to attend the Texas Library Association Conference next year with the SCBWI.  This year, Debi Burrows and Penguin Suits have registered me for the Austin Book Fair in the fall.  I have no idea what to expect!  I will be going on a podcast/radio 10 city book tour beginning in April and will keep you posted on how you can listen in. (Thank you Juliet Clark!)  That’s all for now!  Until next time, happy reading! – Amber